My Mirror

People have approached me many times about wanting to go to the red light district with the objective of talking to the men who go there in search of some form of entertainment. Their objective is to try to change these men’s behavior and/or mindset towards the women there or the sex industry in general.

As I thought about these requests, it led me to think about what it would be like if I carried a mirror with me wherever I went. Why a mirror? A mirror is good to have because when I hold it up to stare at my reflection, I am reminded of where I have been and the journey I had to take so I could be where I am right now.

You see, when we as Christians look in the mirror it gives us a glimpse of the past when our lives were not about God nor were they lived for Him. Yet at the same time, we should also clearly see a new person who has been transformed by His loving and gracious touch, a redeemed and restored living testament of His grace and mercy towards us.

I wonder what another man would see if he happened to look in my mirror? Would he see a finger pointing back at him? Would he see someone with his back turned to him in disgust? Or would he perhaps see someone whose life’s journey and story were relatable to his? Would he see someone willing to walk alongside him to demonstrate that a life of restoration and redemption was possible, even for him?

It is my sincere desire that they only see the face of Jesus when they look in my mirror, not mine. May they see His desire to overwhelm them with His love. May they see His great ability to wipe away the shame that may ensnare them. May they see themselves wrapped in the arms of a loving Father. May they see a small glimpse of the transformed life He desires to give them. Ultimately, may they see that the only one true power that continually restores me is the very same power that will restore them.

We should always take our mirror with us wherever we go. I have my mine, do you?

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